Posted by
Playful Walrus on Tuesday, June 26, 2007 12:37:11 AM
Ladies, do not date or have sex with violent jerks. If the investigators - and one of this guy's other baby mammas - are right about this man, he has a history of "domestic" violence and has now murdered someone.
Please don't think I'm taking any blame away from him. If he is guilty, he deserves the full punishment allowable by law.
However, women have a responsibility to themselves and their children to NOT date, have sex with, or conceive babies with a man who is violent towards them. At the first sign of violence STOP SEEING HIM. Do not date a man who will hurt you, especially if he is married!
This also goes for men. If a woman you are dating is unstable or violent, STOP SEEING HER. Do not make excuses for her. If it really is "your fault", then not seeing her any more should prevent her from being violent, right? If she "needs help", YOU aren't the one to give it to her.
Really, though, women have so much of the power. If they all would not date, have sex with, or cook for men who commit unjust violence, such violence would virtually disappear. But as it is now, some men can lie, cheat, steal, beat, and murder and still get women to flock to them. Even death row inmates have women throwing themselves at them.
ENOUGH!
Protect yourself! Not everything you have a right or a freedom to do is without negative, even deadly consequences. The right to do something (like have sex with whom you want) does not mean the authorities will be able to protect you from the possible negative consequences.
This guy could be convicted and receive the strongest sentence, but that woman and her baby will still be dead, and her other child will be without his parents. Consider the consequences. No amount of earthly justice can fix everything once it has been done.