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Unless we continue to overpay unionized government employees, pay them long after the've stopped working, and pay for all of their health care costs in addition to what we pay for the salary and retirement, kids are going to be put to work in the coal mines 16 hours per day, 365 days a week, for $1 an hour and with no safety measures.
 
Does anyone really believe that?
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California Supreme Court to Get Prop 8 Back

The California Supreme Court (give or take a different member or two) struck down in 2008 the voter-backed law voted in as Prop 22, which reinforced the longstanding law that marriage unites a bride and a groom. Thus, they neutered state marriage licensing as they refused to delay the implementation of their decision until the November 2008 election. A ballot measure was already pending to add the marriage-defense language to the state constitution. In November 2008, that amendment was adopted by the people of California, who voted for Proposition 8, which went into effect immediately. The amendment was challenged, and the state Supreme Court affirmed that it was a valid amendment to the state constitution. Then, the marriage neutering advocated took the matter to a a federal court, where a homosexual judge held somewhat of a strange trial and issued a ridiculous opinion overturning the state constitutional amendment. Subsequently, it was shifted up to the federal 9th Circuit Court of Appeals (while marriage neutering has remained on hold pending outcomes). That court asked the California court to decide whether or not the people defending the constitutional amendment even have standing to do so, since they are the sponsors of the amendment, not the state elected officials (who abandoned their duties)..

Got that?

Today, the California court said it will consider the question of whether or not the very people it previously allosed to defend the amendment should be allowed to defend the amendment before the 9th Circuit Court of appeals. If the state court does the consistent thing and says yes, the 9th Circuit will take up the case and will likely neuter marriage licensing for all states, not just California. And then the issue will likely go to the Supreme Court of the United States.

My analysis of today's announcement and the biased LATimes.com coverage is over at The Opine Editorials.

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Letters on Reagan in Los Angeles Times

Julian Cummings of Huntington Beach demolishes Michael Kinsley's attack on President Reagan that ran on February 5.
Michael Kinsley portrays Ronald Reagan as a failed leader. Though every presidency has its challenges and shortcomings, Reagan left behind an impressive legacy of achievements: recovery from the economic malaise of the late 1970s, dramatic expansion of freedom in Eastern Europe, and a restoration of American confidence on the world stage.

Kinsley denies that Reagan ever championed large defense cuts, having apparently forgotten the historic nuclear arms reduction treaty negotiated with Soviet leader Mikhail Gorbachev.

Kinsley also states that bipartisanship and compromise were not Reagan themes, even though Reagan's most significant legislative accomplishments in the areas of income tax cuts, budget deficit reduction and immigration reform were achieved with the cooperation of then-House Speaker Tip O'Neill and a Democrat-controlled Congress.

About the only thing Kinsley got right was noting that President Obama is no Ronald Reagan.
But Mark Temple of Huntington Beach expressed support for Kinsley’s opinion piece.
All these modern-day Republicans who worship at his altar would find him completely unacceptable today because he raised taxes after his disastrous 1981 cuts that heavily favored the wealthy (sound familiar?); enlarged the federal government; tried to eliminate nuclear weapons (look at the Republicans' criticism of Obama's New START treaty); supported amnesty for illegal immigrants; and signed an abortion bill as governor of California.
Reagan had to deal with a liberal Democrat Congress, so of course there were things he did that were not the ideal of conservatives or limited-government proponents.

His tax cuts were not disastrous but of great benefit, and they "favored the wealthy" only in the sense that the wealthy were being so discriminated against with unequal taxation, they were paying outrageous rates. Thus, it was nearly impossible to cut taxes without the wealthy being "favored".

Reagan did not try to eliminate nuclear weapons. He was seeking a mutual reduction of stockpiles.

He signed a immigration reform bill as part of a "comprehensive" agreement was supposed to include improved border and immigration enforcement. We've learned our lesson. No amnesty talk until after we have effective enforcement.

And yes, he signed an abortion bill as Governor of California for therapeutic abortions, but later said it was a mistake.

If Reagan was as unconservative as Temple claims, Temple wouldn’t dislike him so much.
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Valentine's Day Is Not Enjoyable For Most Men

Ladies, if you have a man in your life with whom you will be celebrating Valentine's Day, he will probably never admit this to you, but chances are he hates Valentine's Day. He will never admit it to you because you seem to enjoy it and he doesn't want to rain on your parade.

There are many reasons why most men do not enjoy Valentine’s Day.

Men tend to be practical when it comes to money. You expect him to blow money on overpriced chocolates, flowers, jewelry, gifts, dinners in crowded restaurants, hotel rooms, etc.  Chocolates?  They'll be gone soon, and frankly, many American women don't need the extra calories. Flowers? They'll be dried and withered soon.

Men stress out looking for the right cards, the right gifts (you know how men are about Christmas shopping, right?), making the right reservations, because some of you punish your man if he doesn't magically read your mind and do exactly the right thing.

Sure, some women buy their man a gift, too.  But if he is the breadwinner, isn't that really spending his money anyway? And let's be honest – Valentine’s Day is really about women, and there's no equivalent for menMaybe Superbowl Sunday, but unless you make your man killer munchies that day, you're not doing a lot of planning and buying gifts and cards for him, are you?

Then there's… performing.  Male sexual function is complicated, not like a robot, and so pressure can be a problem. One reason that men tend to be the initiators is this biological reality.

Now, shouldn't your man enjoy bringing you the pleasure of being fussed over and reminding you that he loves you?  Yes. But do you reciprocate? If you point to sex as the reciprocation, this implies that you don't also enjoy sex. In which case something is very wrong. Otherwise, sex is a mutual exchange.  (If you're not married, you shouldn't be fornicating anyway.)

Men show they love their woman year-round by paying the bills, by protecting her, and by doing many other things, often including lifting heavy objects, opening things, reaching for things, removing scary things, doing fix-its on the home and vehicles. Do you show your love for him by respecting him, keeping yourself together, keeping his stomach full, making love to him as often as he wants it without dropping things he enjoys off of the menu, being a smart shopper, and doing domestic chores (if he is the breadwinner)?  These things may not be important to you, but they are likely important to him.

A happily married man can enjoy Valentine's Day because his wife shows genuine appreciation for his efforts to celebrate their love, and he likes to see her happy. However, statistics show that such men are outnumbered by either unmarried men (who don't have a girlfriend, or have one pressuring him for marriage when he isn't ready or doesn't want to even marry) or married men who are unhappy, and those men are a lot less likely to enjoy Valentine’s Day, and even happily married men might not like the obligation to do this on February 14, when your love should be celebrated each and every day.

(As a side note - there are some single men who enjoy the day because they can find desperate women who are easy scores in the bars. )

So if he makes a big deal about Valentine's Day, don't make him regret it.  He's doing it for you.
 
(This is a repost.)
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Responsible, Successful Punished Again

Did you make sensible decisions about your housing? When the housing market was high, did you rent or lease, or buy a modest condo, perhaps in a lesser area, when your goal was to get a house or a nicer condo in a better area? Did you save up and/or wait for the market to come down before going for your goal? Did you stick with a reputable mortgage you could afford? Have you paid your bills? SUCKER!!! Here are the details reported by Alejandro Lazo in the Los Angeles Times.
More than 100,000 struggling homeowners could get help from a $2-billion program that California is launching, including about 25,000 borrowers who owe more than their properties are worth and could see their mortgages shrink.

The Keep Your Home California program, which uses federal funds reserved for the 2008 rescue of the financial system, has the potential to make a sizable dent in California's foreclosure crisis and help the general housing market. State officials hope to fend off foreclosure for about 95,000 borrowers and provide moving assistance to about 6,500 people who do lose their homes.
Federal funds. Why not just reduce the federal income taxes on Californians?
Out of the five major mortgage servicers — Bank of America Corp., Wells Fargo & Co., JPMorgan Chase & Co., Ally Financial and Citigroup Inc. - only Ally has formally signed on to a key part of the plan: reducing mortgage principal on homes that are "underwater," or worth less than the size of the mortgage. A Bank of America spokesman said the bank intends to participate but hasn't yet reached a formal agreement with the California Housing Finance Agency, which designed the program.
Are you with any of these companies?
By keeping some cheap foreclosed properties from reaching the market, the program could give a boost to home values in general.
So if you've waited to buy, you'll have to pay higher prices.
The biggest of the plan's four parts allocates $875 million as temporary financial help to people who have seen their paychecks cut or have lost their jobs, providing as much as $3,000 a month for six months to cover home payments and associated costs. The second-largest chunk of money, $790 million, is slated for a principal reduction program that would write down the value of an estimated 25,135 underwater mortgages.

Another piece would use $129 million to provide as much as $15,000 apiece to help homeowners get current on their mortgages, and another would take $32 million to provide moving assistance for people who can't afford to remain in their homes.
I'm a SUCKER!
The principal-reduction component would pay lenders $1 for every dollar of mortgage debt forgiven.
So in other words, my tax dollars are going to be given away to other homeowners.
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License Plate Proposed to Honor KKK Leader

At first I thought this headline might be referring to Democrat Senator Robert Byrd. Associated Press write Emily Wagster Pettus reports that it is actually about Confederate General Nathan Bedford Forrest, and it would be part of a series.
Forrest, a Tennessee native, is revered by some as a military genius and reviled by others for leading the 1864 massacre of black Union troops at Fort Pillow, Tenn. Forrest was a Klan grand wizard in Tennessee after the war.

Sons of Confederate Veterans member Greg Stewart said he believes Forrest distanced himself from the Klan later in life. It's a point many historians agree upon, though some believe it was too little, too late, because the Klan had already turned violent before Forrest left.
I'm pretty sure the Klan had turned violent before Byrd left it too. Nobody is proposing Forrest be elected Senator. Just put on a license plate.
"If Christian redemption means anything - and we all want redemption, I think - he redeemed himself in his own time, in his own actions, in his own words," Stewart said. "We should respect that."
Not good enough. Someone needs to find evidence that he supported neutering marriage or was a homosexual himself. Only then would it be okay. In fact, the Left would be clamoring for him to be honored then.

Seriously, I'm not sure what to make of this. Maybe there shouldn't be anything on licenses plates other than the identifying information and the state motto.
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West Hollywood May Ban Smoking in Outside Dining

But don’t worry! STI-spreading, body-injuring, mental illness-and-substance-abuse-correlating male-on-male anal sex is still highly encouraged and celebrated. See Nate Jackson's report on this LATimes.com blog.
The West Hollywood City Council has voted to ban smoking in the city’s outdoor restaurants and other public dining areas.

The council voted 3-2 Monday night in favor of the ordinance, the city clerk’s office said Tuesday. The item will be added to the council’s consent calendar Feb. 22 for a second and final vote.
You can imagine that this drew some comments.

"johnLA" February 08, 2011 at 12:55 PM:
Traffic within a 2 block radius should also be banned as car exhaust is way worse than nicotine as second had inhalent.
They are probably working on that.

"Mark" February 08, 2011 at 02:27 PM:
Why can't businessowners dictate the rules of the places they own? If they run an establishment that allows smoking, let them compete with those who won't allow it.

Better outlaw the places that charbroil their meats (e.g., fajitas, burgers, etc.) too - that smoke is really carcinogenic!
They are probably working on that, too. Insert your own meat/beef joke here.

Speaking of that, over at The Opine Editorials, I take a look at Ann Coulter's latest column.
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California Computer System: Epic Fail

In today's Los Angeles Times, there is a painful example of what is wrong with government in California. Patrick McGreevy reports.
A computer modernization project for the state's court system has soared in cost from $260 million to as much as $1.9 billion [that’s $1,900,000,000!!!] and is now so far over budget and behind schedule that it should be put on hold and reconsidered, a new state audit has found.

The project, the California Court Case Management System, is supposed to modernize and link court computers in California's 58 counties. But it has been beset with problems almost since it was started in 2001, spurring legislators to ask for the audit. The system was supposed to be finished in 2009 but now may not be ready until 2016, and even then it could be incomplete, according to the scathing 143-page audit by state Auditor Elaine Howle.
It’s not like California has any experts in computer systems, or anything. Something tells me the system will be obsolete before being completed.
The expensive project began as a more modest effort involving a handful of courts. It is now supposed to allow all courts to instantly update information on cases so the information is available throughout the state. If it works, the system will give residents the ability to file documents electronically without visiting a courthouse.
Think about this when we are told to vote for tax increase extensions.
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The Heart of the Marriage Neutering Issue

Same-sex couples in places like California already have their freedoms.
It isn't just that someone who objects to homosexual behavior will be forced to endorse it. We will all, whether we have a moral objection to homosexual behavior or not, be forced to treat brideless and groomless pairings and marriage identically. State marriage licenses are issued on our behalf. The marriage neutering advocates don't want us to even have a word that notes there is a difference. It would be official government policy that there is not.
More analysis over at The Opine Editorials.
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Not Everyone Celebrating Reagan

It would seem that most Americans today have an appreciation for the late President Reagan. Even a lot of die-hard Democrats and Leftists have some good things to say about him.

But there's a distinct group of people who have marked Reagan's centennial with wailing and gnashing of teeth. Who are they? Some (not all) homosexuality advocates and gender confusion obsessives.

Their chief complaint appears to be that with the onset of HIV/AIDS in the USA, Reagan didn't drop everything and focus on something striking a tiny portion of the population, a disease that is almost entirely avoidable through some basic morality. Yes, there were people infected through tainted donated blood or through accidental or malicious needle pokes, but the vast majority of people acquired HIV through shooting up illegal drugs with a needle already used by another junkie, or through engaging in rough sex, especially receiving anal sex from someone who had been having sex with someone else or shooting up illegal drugs.

Am I saying that people who did those things "deserved" to get AIDS and die, more than then next guy? Nope. But let’s not pretend that people hadn't been warned to avoid such behavior. Be honest. How many of these people have sympathy for chain smokers who get lung cancer and want Obama to do more about lung cancer?

As far as Reagan’s lack of focus on HIV/AIDS, I can see why people are so upset to this day. After all, it is right there in Article II, Section 5 of the Constitution of the United States:
The President shall respond to new diseases spread by behavior typical of junkies and homosexual males by taking money by force from everyone and spending it on treating and preventing the spread of the disease, all other issues, including diseases killing more people, be damned.
Oops. That part of the Constitution doesn't exist. Which means it wasn't Reagan's place to do anything. I suppose he could have used his bully pulpit to look into the camera and say:
It is your duty to yourselves, your family, your country, and our God that you stop buggering different people and stop sharing needles. If you're a man and refuse to stop engaging in homosexual behavior, then stick to true monogamy. Not that “monogamy” where you can still have sex with other people as long as your partner is there, or your partner is out of town, or you are out of town, or you're in a club, or in a restroom. If you're a junkie and refuse to stop shooting up, then use clean needles.
Somehow, I don't think those whining about Reagan's refusal to take unconstitutional action on this matter would have been happy with that.

Meanwhile, most people recognize that Reagan did a lot of good for the world, even if they don't like everything about his Presidency.

And here's a hint before we’re hit with the next new disease: Avoid substance abuse. Do not sure needles. Save sex for marriage, marry someone who will be faithful, treat that person right, and stay faithful to them.
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Racism From New California Chief Justice?

New Chief Justice of the California Supreme Court, Tani Cantil-Sakauye, who replaced retired Chief Justice Ronald M. George, met with reporters to talk about many different things. The powers at the Los Angeles Times, being the publication that appeals to the general population rather than a tiny behavioral minority, chose the headline "New chief justice says California Supreme Court will decide soon on entering Proposition 8 fray". Maura Dolan reports.
Chief Justice Tani Cantil-Sakauye said Wednesday that the California Supreme Court may decide "as soon as next week" whether to weigh in on the federal Proposition 8 appeal and expressed hope that a Southern California Latino would be chosen to succeed departing Justice Carlos R. Moreno.
I'm not sure what her racism means for the Prop 8 case. As you may recall, the case was tossed back to California's Supreme Court by the three judge panel hearing the case for the 9th Circuit federal appeals court to deal with an issue of standing.
The new chief justice has declined to reveal her views about [neutering] marriage. As an appeals court judge in Sacramento, she performed a wedding for a same-sex couple "as a favor to someone else who had a family emergency," she said. Same-sex marriage was legal for six months in 2008. "I didn't have any qualms about it," she said.
Yeah, you know, I'm not going to reveal my views about fornication and adultery, but I'll tell a bunch of reporters in the tank for fornication and adultery that if a buddy of mine gets temporarily incapacitated and requests I "take care" of his wife, I'll do that as a favor for him without any qualms. After all, both of those things are legal.

(Many of my statements above are sarcastic. You get to figure out which ones.)

"Michaelthepainter" at 4:38 AM February 3, 2011:
I think they should find an African-Arab mix, transgender, blind, mentally challenged, gay, Green Party, Norteno gang member, hemerrhoid suffering, bald, obese, recovering alcoholic from a remote, rural Northeast California logging community as the next justice. If he/she/it knows anything about law, that would be a plus, too.
"TomWarner" at 5:18 AM February 3, 2011:
How dare you, Mcihaelthepainter, leaving out the homeless, I am offended!
"jskdn2" at 10:33 AM February 3, 2011 made a good point:
Moreno was the only justice not to recognize that it's the Constitution of California, not his personal preferences, that control what justices can do. The other four judges who had voted to overturn the original initiative banning gay marriage all accepted that.

If the State Supreme Court doesn't recognize that for the the initiative process, which is designed to go over the heads of elected politicians, to be meaningful, it can't have those same politicians trump those initiatives by simply refusing to provide for their defense against the inevitable lawsuits, then they will have effectively rendered the initiative powers of the citizens of this state moot.
You can find everything you need to know about Proposition 8, the state court trial, and the federal trial at The Opine Editorials.

Also see my Handy Dandy Marriage Neutering Plea Repellant
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Yes, We Are Taxed Enough Already

Someone by the name of Mary Kidwell wrote in to the Orange County Register to say that that federal income taxes were a bargain, and she didn't know why people think they are taxed enough already. She doubted others paid more than seven percent of their income in taxes.

The readers didn’t disappoint with their responses. I'll highlight some.

Here's one from Breck Rowell of Placentia:
According to the 2009 Tax Tables, Mary Kidwell should have paid between $11,631 and $15,699; depending on how she filed rather than the $5,000 she claims to have paid [“Paying taxes is a good U.S. investment,” Jan 31]. Regarding the list of benefits she says she received for her investment, only military protection falls under the Constitutional responsibility of the Federal Government (see The 10th Amendment).

Perhaps if she continues to underpay on her taxes, she can get a job as treasury secretary just like Timothy Geithner.
Zing!

The rest were printed separately.

Steve Benke of La Mirada:
I guess that Mary has forgotten that we are also required to pay state income taxes, property taxes, local and state sales taxes, gasoline taxes, utilities taxes, social security taxes, and Medicare taxes. There are also taxes disguised as “fees” and the cruelest tax of all, inflation, which continually eats away at the savings of every American whether they are eating, sleeping, vacationing or working. It is ultimately caused by government and government alone. Mary should also consider one other aspect of taxation. Every time she hires a plumber, electrician, painter or carpet layer she is paying them so that they can pay their tax obligations which are normally rolled up into a single statement and rarely broken down so that the customer can get an idea of how much less their bill would be if all of the above taxes were reduced or eliminated.
Tim Streit of Coto de Caza:
Mary Kidwell’s confusion as to which demographic supports the Tea Party movement is bad enough, but her lack of knowledge about how much she and the rest of the population are taxed is truly mind numbing. Talk about a mindset that is “scary and inexplicable.”

So Mary Kidwell of La Habra pays $5,000 in taxes on $77,000 in income and feels she is paying her fair share. How quaint. I have been blessed in many ways and make considerably north of $77,000 while paying 39 percent tax to the federal government, 11 percent to the state and numerous additional property, sales, utility taxes and other hidden “fees” along the way.

I’d like to hear Mary rationalize how her 6.5 percent tax rate is fair compared to my more than 50 percent tax rate. Fair taxation would be if I paid twice as much as Mary while making twice as much as Mary, not paying nearly nine times as much. So stop with the “tax cuts for the rich” garbage Mary.

The Orange County Register letters are often superior to the letters found in a more famous Southern California daily.

As far as taxes, I am convinced more than ever that we do need to have a system in which if anyone is directly taxed, virtually everyone is directly taxed. This will give more people more incentive to care about keeping government spending responsible. And it needs to be structured in a way where it isn't common to pay the taxes through a system of automatic payroll deductions, once-a-year filing, and then get a singular may-or-may-not-be-a-rebate. Too many people think they are actually getting money back. Let people be reminded weekly or monthly exactly what they are really paying directly in taxes, and where the money is going. No more gimmicks.
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Homofascists Target Chick-fil-A

The founder is a Christian and the privately-owned chain donated to Christian organizations. Clutch the pearls! Read my analysis over at The Opine Editorials.

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Obamacare: Are Federal Lawmakers Hypocrites?

The Left likes to name and attack as hypocrites federal legislators who are against Obamacare but accept the health insurance provided to Congress.
 
However, this is a misapplication of the word "hypocrite". Representatives and Senators are elected to their positions, and these position are their jobs. They are voluntarily accepting health insurance offered voluntarily by their employer. Obamacare forces people to get health insurance and puts certain requirements on private businesses.
 
It is rather telling that these Leftists either can't see the different, or they are counting on you not being able to see the difference.
 
It is a safe bet that the legislators would also vote against forcing private businesses to offer the kind of security protection Congress gets, too. And Obama isn't sharing the Secret Service with all of us, either.
 
That one person earns something does not create a moral imperative that every person gets the same thing.
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8 Simple Rules For Dating as Adults

You've probably heard about "8 Simple Rules For Dating My Teenage Daughter" - the book by W. Bruce Cameron and the sitcom.  Well, here are 8 Simple Rules For Dating as Adults, (with thanks to Dr. Laura).  Although I'm happily married, I have family and friends who are unmarried, some of whom are looking for a spouse. So I think about stuff like this.

1. Figure out why you are dating (free or shared entertainment/dinner, sex, casual companionship, appearances, social/familial/professional status or advancement, to find a roommate, to find a spouse) - and seek someone compatible with you who will meet that need.

2. "No", "don't", or "stop" means "no", "don’t", or "stop", despite where you are and what the other person is or isn't wearing or doing, but going certain places and doing certain things does place someone more at risk for rape, assault, or sex that they later regret and is therefore stupid, even though it doesn't excuse the actions of the other person.

3. Accept the person you date "as-is".  Do not expect the person to get any better or any more compatible with you and what you are looking for than they are now. If you discover that the person doesn't meet your needs or has a red flag, stop dating them. Do not nag, whine, pout, beg, plead, demand, cajole, pressure, or wait any longer. By dating you are figuring out if this person is right for you, not trying to change them.

4. Marriage prospects are usually no younger than 25 and do not have any minor children. Parents of minor children should be focusing on their kids, kids who already have to deal with a broken home.

5. Marriage prospects meet each others' friends and family after an appropriate amount of time, and spend a lot of time with each other, but do not shack up or fornicate. Fornicating or shacking up is for people who do not want to get married and stay married.

6. Marriage prospects get engaged after about 18-30 months, not three months, not five years of going steady. "Engagement" means a ring and a date, and is only entered into by people who are reasonably sure they want to marry each other and can stay married to each other. No ring means being able to date other people. There is no moving to another city or state for someone to whom you are not engaged or married.

7. If you are a man who wants children, do not propose to or date a woman who will not either stay home to raise them or happily support you as you stay home to raise them. If you are a woman who wants children, do not accept a proposal from or date a man who will not either happily support you as you stay home to raise them or will stay home to raise them himself with your respect.

8. Communication that happens while you are apart, through an electronic device, does not replace or count as face-to-face time together.

(This is essentially a repost.)
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