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Yes, I Know Most of My Heroes and Friends Are Sinners; I Am Too

Have you noticed that some people who try to defend behavior that is deviant or traditionally immoral say something like ... the people who engage in it may be in your family, in your church, in your social circle, your doctor, your dentist, your child’s teacher, the cop who helps you, the fireman who saves your house, etc., or they try to assign the behavior to famous achievers in history?

This can be an argument for "you just don't know who is doing what in private".  It is NOT a good argument for "so you can't say it is wrong."

It is no surprise to any follower of Christ (and a great many other people) that the people we deal with in our daily lives and the people we may admire for their achievements are sinners.  I know all too well that I am a sinner.  Hence, my need for a Savior.

When we recognize something as deviant or immoral, we are not saying that we ourselves never do anything deviant, immoral, or that someone else would simply find disagreeable.  My favorite musician can love rye bread – doesn’t mean I will stop disliking it.  But of course, that is mere taste of no moral weight.

What if my doctor also kicks puppies like he’s trying to score a field goal?  That doesn't make it okay, no matter how good a doctor he is.  Sin or not, we deal with people all day long that do things and believe things that we think are wrong, stupid, or disagreeable.  That in no way means we should no longer consider the behavior in question wrong, if it is wrong instead of a matter of taste.

The next time someone tries this argument on you, turn it around on them.  Point out that they probably deal every day (and get along just fine) with people who agree with you – that people who agree with you are involved in making the products and providing the services this person uses every day.

“You never know who is voting Republican, or praying to God, or studying the Bible, or attending church regularly, or believes in traditional morals!”  We're everywhere, too.


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Who Wants to Go to LAX Anyway?

Here’s an example of ridiculous planning and execution in public transportation due, in large part, to inefficient government and political power struggles.

Sprawling Los Angeles County has perpetually jammed freeways, and a very limited mass transit light rail system run by the MTA, which also runs the busses.  Part of that system, the Green Line, runs 20 miles, but does not stop at the nearest Metrolink station (Metrolink being a heavier rail system also running through neighboring counties, and NOT part of the MTA).  It also stops just far enough away from LAX.  Part of the problem is that the MTA Board and Los Angeles World Airports couldn’t work things out.

The MTA Board is comprised mostly of Los Angeles County Supervisors and City of L.A. Councilmembers and mayoral appointees, and elected officials from some other local cities.

LAWA is a subsidiary, for lack of a better word, of the City of L.A. government, though it also owns an runs an airport that is in an entirely different county.

Yet the MTA’s Green Line still doesn’t go to the LAWA’s LAX.

Gene Maddus of the Daily Breeze writes:
A proposal to extend the Green Line to LAX overcame its first hurdle in Sacramento this week, when it passed through the Senate Transportation Committee.

The bill, by Sen. Jenny Oropeza, still faces significant obstacles: most notably, the likely opposition of the Metropolitan Transportation Authority.
That’s right.  The MTA is against the bill.  Why?  Well, read on.
Oropeza's bill, SB 1722, would create a separate construction authority with an independent mandate to build a two-mile link to Los Angeles International Airport.

The MTA has opposed such efforts in the past - most recently when Assemblyman Ted Lieu proposed the same idea last year - because a new entity would compete with the MTA for funding and control of the county's transit agenda. Lieu's bill died in the Assembly Appropriations Committee last summer.
Why create a new organization?  Glad you asked.
A construction authority could help clear any political hurdles by bringing the MTA, LAWA, the county and the city of Los Angeles together on a governing board with a common purpose.
Even if it happens, it will take a long time before it is up and running.  Meanwhile, I’ll stick with my automobile.
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Do I Smell More RINOs in California?

Phil Willon, Los Angeles Times staff writer, reports that there is a new group trying to get Republicans elected to statewide office in California.  I thought we already had a group that was supposed to do that: The California Republican Party?
Led in part by former Gov. Pete Wilson and two major political donors from Orange County, a group of moderate Republicans will announce Wednesday a new organization focused on recruiting the "next generation" of GOP candidates for statewide office, including governor and the U.S. Senate.

The organization, called California Republicans Aligned for Tomorrow, was created to turn around the GOP's dismal record in those contests since 1994.
Good thing they went with “Tomorrow” in the name instead of something starting with a “P”.
Underlying the campaign effort is the feeling among some influential Republicans that the state party has bent too far to the right, helping Democrats gain a firm grasp on the Legislature, the state's congressional delegation and statewide offices.
Too far to the right?  You mean like, oh, saying we should spend less and we should deport illegal aliens who murder people, and that public schools should maintain boys restrooms for boys, and girls restrooms girls?
The state party's fundraising efforts also have languished in the last year…
Yeah, we don’t want to support shamnesty efforts.  Show us you are true to conservatism, and we’ll support you.  It’s that simple.

Let’s face it.  Los Angeles County and San Francisco are what make California a blue state instead of red, and it is really hard to change that.  State and local government payrolls get bigger and bigger, and thus public employee unions, through compulsory dues, get more and more money to back their political causes – namely, expanding the government to create more dues-payers for their unions.  Employers and property owners largely have their hands tied as employees and renters call the shots.

California has millions of illegal aliens, most, if not all receiving some form of government assistance.  Their children born here are citizens, who can legally vote.  It is easy to get them to vote Democrat, because Democrats promise to welcome and take care of people like their law-breaking parents.

The only hope for conservatives in California is secession of some sort, something that separates Los Angeles and San Francisco from everyone else.  It could mean one or more new states, or it could mean a smaller California as the other counties get annexed to other states.  Either way, that just isn’t going to happen.

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I Have an Idea For California’s Budget

In more news of the obvious, falling corporate profits means less tax revenue in California, the Los Angeles Times headline reports over an article by staff writer Evan Halper.
California's budget problems deepened today as the state reported that tax receipts plummeted nearly $1 billion last month due to plunging corporate profits.

The news comes as the state moves closer to the July 1 deadline for lawmakers to close California's budget gap, which had earlier been estimated at $16.5 billion. There is little agreement in the Capitol about how to go about doing that.

Democrats have been calling for multibillion-dollar tax increases. Republicans have signed pledges vowing never to vote for new revenue, demanding instead that the budget be balanced with steep spending cuts.
The Dems aren’t just calling for tax increases – they are calling for new taxes.  All sorts of new taxes.

So I’ve come up with my own.  Since falling corporate profits mean less tax revenue for California, thus forcing legislators to make budget decisions they’d rather not, and scaring children enough they go on picket lines to protest “cuts” (usually reductions in planned spending increases), we should encourage corporations not to engage in such behavior (falling profits).  Let’s implement a “Corporate Profit Decrease Tax” as a way of filling in the gap and, at the same time, discouraging corporations from paying less in taxes due to lower profits.

Hey, it makes about as much sense as most of the new taxes and increases the California Dems are proposing.

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Three Red Herrings in the Illegal Alien Fight

“You want to round up entire communities and deport them!”
“You blame all our problems on immigrants – it’s scapegoating!”
“You just don’t like brown people.”


Are you as tired of hearing these as I am?  Illegal alien activists and certain Democrats should stop using them.  I’ll discuss all three below.

1) We seek to round up all illegal aliens and forcibly deport them.
  I don’t doubt that there have to be a few people out there who want to do this, but this is not the position of an overwhelming majority of people who demand enforcement of immigration laws.  What we want is law enforcement.  A) As long as we have employment regulations and payroll taxes, employers here should be punished for hiring people who are not authorized to work in the U.S., severely enough that it discourages them from repeating the violation.  B) Identity thieves, through their fraud, wreak havoc on the lives of others, and should be punished and, if possible, made to provide restitution.  Yes, people who commit serious crimes within our communities who are not citizens should be returned to their country of citizenship.  C)  We have a system that is very generous to people in need, whether they are citizens, legal immigrants, or legal visitors.  That system invites fraud and attracts illegal aliens, very few of whom are in a position to contribute as much to our society as they take.  If we had a more libertarian society, this would be different.

There is no need for mass deportation.  There is also no need for amnesty.  We simply need effective border enforcement, and the problem will take care of itself over time.  People will even self-deport if we do serious workplace enforcement and get rid of public hand-outs.

2) We blame all our problems on immigrants.  Nope.  First of all, “immigrants” are people who come here legally, usually with the intention of becoming citizens.  I welcome them with open arms.  People who come here or stay here illegally are, by legal definition, illegal aliens.  But we do not blame all our problems on illegal aliens.  We blame illegal aliens only for the problems they cause, or for their share of contributing to a problem.  It is ridiculous to ignore the impact that millions of mostly unskilled, uneducated, dependent criminals have on our infrastructure, in our schools, our criminal justice system, and our public welfare systems.  When our jails and prisons are overcrowded, it is folly to ignore that a significant percentage of the inmates are illegal aliens.  Same goes for the students in our schools, the patients in our emergency rooms, the drivers on our freeways, etc.

3) We don’t like brown people.  This is ridiculous.  From what I’ve read, avowed racists do oppose welcoming illegal aliens (they probably like their pets, too), but most people on our side are not racists.  I’m certainly not.  I don’t want white Canadians here illegally, either.  However, I do resent demands that we conform to the culture of illegal aliens, including their language.  Sorry, we shouldn’t have to bow to Canadian French or Spanish.  Our language here is English.  We expect immigrants to adapt – we certainly should not go out of our way to accommodate illegal aliens.  Ultimately, though, whether or not someone is racist is a different issue from whether or not we should have immigration enforcement.


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Has Arnold Switched Teams on Marriage?

Columnist Daniel Weintraub of the Sacramento Bee writes about Governor Schwarzenegger’s stance on same-sex “marriage”.  Recently, there was a lot of coverage that tried to portray recent comments from Schwarzenegger as a change in his position on changing marriage licensing in California.  This is because he had vetoed, a while back, a bill by the legislature to change marriage licensing, but recently expressed his opinion that a proposition to add a “defense of marriage” amendment to the state constitution was a waste of time.

That is not necessary a change in position.
  When Schwarzenegger vetoed the bill, he cited that the people of California had passed a “defense of marriage” measure directly by ballot measure, and so it should be up to the people or the courts to decide, not the state legislature.  I see no conflict with that position and opposing a ballot measure for an addition to the state constitution.  Someone who wants a particular end may not approve of all methods of arriving at that end, especially when there are pending or looming court decisions that may make those efforts moot.  It is possible for someone to have taken both of these actions and support defending the current legal definition of marriage, and, conversely, possible for someone to have taken these actions and want marriage licenses issued where one of the sexes is missing.  (Remember - marriage is the only institution where Leftists support excluding one of the sexes.)
Based on everything he has said since he was first a candidate for governor, Schwarzenegger does not really seem to care whether California legalizes [same-sex] [“]marriage[“] or not, whatever his personal feelings on the subject might be.

The Republican governor has always said that he believes marriage should be between a man and a woman. But he has never been adamant about his stand.
Indeed.  Marriage can only be between a man and a woman.  Anything else is a counterfeit.
Schwarzenegger has supported state-sanctioned domestic partnerships that give [same sex couples*] almost all of the rights that married people have. And while he has said the state and local governments must abide by the voter-approved ban on [counterfeit] marriage known as Proposition 22, the governor also has said he would not be upset if the voters or the courts legalized [counterfeit] marriage in California.
In this case, he tends to favor the direct will of the people. *He wrote "gays", but gay people already have the same rights as straight people in this regard - to marry any willing, eligible person of the opposite sex.
If the Supreme Court does strike down Proposition 22 and the voters do not reinstate the ban, Schwarzenegger will be put in an uncomfortable position. The Democrat-controlled Legislature is sure to pass another measure legalizing gay marriage in the state, and the governor would no longer have the voters' will as a shield. He would have to either sign or veto the bill on its own merits.
Licensed marriage is not a right in the same sense as the right to free speech or the right to bear arms.  You have those rights naturally, by birth.  If licensed marriage was a natural right, you wouldn't need anyone else to do it for you; it is the people of California who issue that license, and they should have their say.  True rights do not obligate others without their consent.  The people of California choose to license marriages for the good of society.  We are not obligated to license marriage at all.

You have a natural right to associate with whomever agrees to associate with you.  Therefore, you can live together in your own home, make vows to each other, have ceremonies and celebrations – all of that.  Nobody is stopping anyone from doing that.  But you should not be able to force the state to issue you a marriage license against the will of the people.

There shouldn’t be a “need” for a constitutional amendment in the first place.
  Courts should not be able to force the people to issue marriage licenses where one of the components – a woman or a man – is missing.  However, courts overreach their authority all of the time these days.

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Another Example of Government Health Care

The County of Los Angeles has lost their Director of Health Services again.  That’s the person who oversees the hospitals, among other things.  Fortunately, Public Health was spun off not too long ago into a separate department.

Los Angeles Times Staff Writers Garrett Therolf, Mary Engel and Jean-Paul Renaud, among others bring us this report.
Dr. Bruce A. Chernof, whose relationship with the Board of Supervisors had grown acrimonious, told officials his exit was unrelated to the failed negotiations over Martin Luther King Jr.-Harbor Hospital.
That’s the place nicknamed “Killer King” because politics dictated how the place was (mis)run more than anything else.  The hospital serves an area traditionally considered “black”, but is also overrun with illegal aliens.
He leaves as the county Department of Health Services faces a projected budget shortfall of $750 million over the next two years and undertakes the knotty task of moving County-USC Medical Center from its Depression-era facility to a new, smaller complex.
It always seems like there is a problem.
The county operates the second-largest publicly funded healthcare system in the nation, with an annual budget exceeding $3.3 billion, three general hospitals and a network of clinics that together treat about 700,000 patients a year, most of them uninsured.
A great many of the uninsured are illegal aliens.  That, and the public employee unions are two of the major reasons Health Services is constantly in the red and there are problems with this government health care system.  Another is trying to cater to directives from the State of California and the federal government.
Chernof had been promoted to the top department job in 2006 after a series of directors left with short tenures.
Many other County of Los Angeles departments have recently had their Directors retire or resign, too.
Based on a variety of health indicators, the South Los Angeles area remains among the most disadvantaged communities in the nation. More people die of lung cancer, stroke, diabetes and heart disease there than in any other place in L.A. County.
What about gunshots?  Don’t forget those!
The county has long had a hard time keeping health services chiefs. Officials have a history of publicly browbeating them and second-guessing their actions to try to right the beleaguered system.
It’s a really tough Board to deal with.  There are three Democrats and two Republicans, though I believe the positions are officially nonpartisan.  District 1, created specifically for Latinos by court order, is Gloria Molina’s.  Molina is notorious for her public tongue-lashings of county officials.  She seems to prefer bringing in outsiders to run things.  District 2 is Yvonne B. Burke’s, and is the “black” district.  Burke is retiring after a long, distinguished career.  Although Democrat, she sometimes champions (at least ceremonially, if not by vote) causes more often associated with conservatives.  She has tried to keep that hospital open.  Her replacement will be an African-American.  District 3 is Zev Yaroslavsky’s, and is the one that has Hollywood and Malibu.  He represents and area where environmental whackos are quite vocal.  Zev is quite the orator and debator.  Most pundits assume he’s going to run for Los Angeles Mayor or would want a County “Mayor” position, should one be created.  District 4 is Don Knabe’s.  Knabe, I believe, is an ordained minister and fought hard to keep the cross in the county seal.  Although Republican, he often votes with the previous three Board members.  District 5 is Mike Antonovich’s.  Antonovich is the staunch conservative of the bunch.  He has served as a reserve police officer and strongly champions law enforcement.  He also makes it a point to point how just how much illegal aliens are costing the county.

The County Board of Supervisors has executive and legislative authority for the county, and the last time an encumbent was voted out was in 1980.
At times, Molina and fellow supervisors' frustration over County-USC and other issues has boiled over during public tongue-lashings directed at Chernof, especially after state inspectors said patients at Harbor-UCLA Medical Center were in "immediate jeopardy" because of an overcrowded emergency room.

Supervisors repeatedly complained that health officials provided few answers to their questions. And when reports were produced, supervisors complained they were confusing and inaccurate.
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Gee, Thanks Senator

These Letters to the Editor in the Los Angeles Times are in sync with my thinking on he “housing crisis”.

Dale Ma of Sherman Oaks writes:
Democrats should be ashamed of themselves. They claim to represent the working class, yet they advocate programs that will literally subsidize inflated home values. This serves the dual purpose of rewarding cheaters and punishing those who were responsible. Letting prices fall back to their natural levels before this Ponzi scheme started would help millions instead of the relatively few a bailout would serve. Responsible workers would be more able to afford a home instead of being trapped with escalating rents that make it harder to save for a down payment.

Further, if this legislation passes, how will any level of government justify "affordable housing" programs? While we're busy using tax dollars to keep prices artificially high, we're also supposed to use tax dollars to subsidize the purchase of homes for lower-income people because prices are too high? Are you kidding me?
Don Martin of Santa Ana agrees:
Let's get our semantics correct. The people living in homes are occupiers and buyers, not owners. The financial institutions that lent money hold the deeds. Those who made small or no down payments have little or nothing to lose. They pay the equivalent of rent but, unlike renters, receive a tax deduction. Those who scrimped and saved to make a substantial down payment should not be paying taxes to bail out those who chose to take on a risk. It is not fair to burden the frugal with the cost of others' poor judgment.
We need less federal intrusion into our lives, not more.  The market corrects itself.  Go after actual fraud.  But do not protect people from their own mistakes.
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High Schoolers Don’t Know Money

Does it really surprise us in the age of subprime mortgages, checks for anyone who files a tax return, payday loan stores, and government-as-daddy that our high school students don’t know money?

Jeannine Aversa, AP Economic Writer, reports:
High school seniors, on average, answered correctly only 48.3 percent of questions about personal finance and economics, according to a nationwide survey released Wednesday by the Federal Reserve.
But I bet they can all tell you about our impending environmental doom.
With home foreclosures at record highs, Fed Chairman Ben Bernanke stressed in a speech that young people must sharpen their financial knowledge so they are in a better position to make sound investment decisions throughout their lives.
Clearly.
In this year's survey, only 16.8 percent correctly answered that stocks likely would offer the higher growth over 18 years of saving for a child's education, while 37.3 percent thought a U.S. savings bond — one of the most conservative investments - would offer the highest growth.

Nearly 53 percent said they would have no liability if their credit card was stolen and a thief ran up $1,000 worth of debt. (Liability is limited to $50 after the credit-card issuer is notified.) Only 13 percent knew they might have to be responsible for $50.
Our schools should be teaching students some basics about economics and finances:

-Supply and demand
-It takes capital to make capital
-Spend less than you make, saving and investing the difference
-Different kinds in investments
-How insurance works
-How credit and loans work
-Interest rates
-How corporations are owned and function, passing along costs to consumers, investors, or employees
-The government runs on our money – when it spends more than it takes in, that will cost us more later.
-Debt in general is costly
-Crime is costly

I recommend people read up on Ron Blue's material.
The surveys, done every two years, were sponsored by the Jump$tart Coalition for Personal Financial Literacy, which wants students to have the skills to be financially competent.
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More Fun With Advice Columns

I need to start looking for advice columns written by men.

WAITING IN CAPISTRANO writes in to Dear Abby:
I have been dating a woman in Phoenix -- where we both lived -- for the past three years. We were in an exclusive relationship, but not living together because I was going through a divorce when we met. Throughout our time together I have helped "Jackie" with rent and cash gifts.
Fool.
I have since moved to California,
That means there is no longer such thing as an exclusive relationship.
and Jackie would like to come and live with me.
Just say no.
I thought it would be nice, but a cohabitation agreement would be necessary because I have a lot of assets and she has very few.
Don’t shack up.  Problem solved.
After some discussion, she came up with an agreement, but I feel the benefits package she's asking for is too high. She's asking me to pay all living expenses, housing, food, health insurance, a new car with auto insurance and an allowance of $3,000 a month.
Sounds like a prostitute.  That is, if you are fornicating with her.  If not, then she’s a tease in addition to being a golddigger.
I balked on this "deal" because it seems more like a rental agreement rather than a loving relationship.
Uh, yup.
She maintains that she needs a "cushion" in case the relationship doesn't work out because she'll be leaving her job and friends behind.
That’s why there should be no moving for a partner without being married, or at least a ring and a date and a pre-nup.

Dear Abby responds:
If the relationship does not work out, the consequences would affect her financially for the rest of her life.
What about him?!?

TED writes in to Dear Margo:
I had been out of the dating scene for a while, but finally found someone I really like and think would be a good match for me. We get along great and I get the sense there is mutual interest. I have kept matters on a friendly basis thus far because (and herein lies my dilemma) her longtime boyfriend committed suicide a couple of months ago.
Too soon!   Depending on how she recovers or doesn’t you might be better off not getting involved.  And why was she attracted to a man who committed suicide?  If she doesn't figure that out, watch out.
I can tell there are some personal issues she is still working out because of it, and I don't want to push anything too soon.
You know, you’re probably in the “friend” pile anyway, and thus have no chance of this becoming a romance.  And hanging around as a friend longer will only make that more true.  Look for romance elsewhere.

Dear Margo responds:
Let things continue on a friendly basis and be whatever kind of friend she needs you to be -- which I suspect, for now, is a buddy to lean on.  When she is ready, I am guessing your relationship with this woman could blossom into the romance you desire.
Oh no… tell the guy to subject himself to all of the messy fall-out under the false (and selfish) hope that she’ll eventually see him as romance material?  Bad advice.

STRESSED OUT writes in:
I'm not sure how to start this, but my husband confuses me. We have been together for five years (married almost three), and in that time we've had the same argument over and over again about "fulfilling his needs."
Why is there an argument?  Why did you marry him if you didn’t want to fulfill his needs?
I've never been a sex kitten and his libido always seems to be in overdrive.
If you fornicated before marriage, you should have known this and not have gotten married.  If you waited for marriage to make love, part of the risk is having these differences – either way, you should seek to accommodate.  You can if you try.
When I give in to appease him, he complains that he's not interested in "mercy sex," but he's too impatient to wait until I'm in the mood.  He normally ends up frustrated and gives me the silent treatment, while I've just become annoyed at this point.
So far, it sounds like you need to spend Dr. Laura’s "fifteen minutes minimum of daily physical contact".  If you still aren’t in the mood by the middle of that, or he refuses to do what he can to get you into the mood, it is time for counseling.  Most men, when you tell them clearly and specifically what you need, will do it.
I love him dearly and enjoy his company, but sex just doesn't do much for me, not to mention I have a highly stressful job that leaves me exhausted most of the time.
What if he were to tell you that he couldn’t ever be romantic towards you, or listen to your venting, because his job was stressful?  Now you sound more like someone who shouldn’t have gotten married in the first place.
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Paging Algore

In this story about old human feces found in a cave that may give some clue as to when human first migrated to North America, I noticed this:
Humans are widely believed to have arrived in North America from Asia over a land-bridge between Alaska and Siberia during a warmer period. A variety of dates has been proposed and some are in dispute.
What kind of SUVs were they driving back then to cause such warming?
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Some People Choose to Make Their Lives Unnecessarily Complicated

Both “Dear Margo” and “Dear Abby” just ran columns dealing the same issue.

GOING NUTS writes in to Dear Margo:
I am 37 and got married two years ago.
If he was never married before, this probably means he had become somewhat set in his ways.
My wife's children were 6 and 8 at the time.
Hold on.  There’s a problem right there.

Marrying someone with children has become quite common these days, because of the high rate of divorce and children born out of wedlock thanks to fornication (say, wasn’t "outercourse" and contraception and abortion supposed to stop that?), and maybe even because of women who decide to visit the sperm bank.

But being common does not make it a good idea.  There are many reasons why it is a bad idea.

1) A parent should concentrate on parenting their children, not finding a new honey.  Especially if children are not living in one home with both their mother and father, they need the present parent’s attention even more.

2) Children should not be exposed to a revolving door of “surrogate parents” as their parent tries different people out as a new honey, and all of the drama and loss of attention and time with their parent that comes with it.

3) While I know there are plenty of decent, stand-up stepparents out there, the fact is, having a stepparent and especially the process of finding one exposes the child(ren) to a higher risk of being abused.  (Most men, if they have a choice in dating partners, prefer a woman without the complications of her already having children – unless they are pedophiles or can’t produce their own children.)

4) Unless widowed (and sometimes even then), an unmarried parent has a bad track record of picking a good partner and treating them well.  Unless the underlying problems have been resolved, the parent is likely going to repeat the same mistakes.

5) It changes the family dynamics and the rules for the child.
At first, the kids slept in our bed. I didn't say anything for about a month, but then I said that was not acceptable.
That's quite a honeymoon.  Did you know they were sleeping in their mother’s bed before you married her?  If so, you chose this and brought this upon yourself.
I also catch hell if I try to discipline her son, now 8, when he pouts or plays her to get things his way.
Uh, yup.  Such is a common problem with being a stepparent.  But you had to come in and “rescue” this woman.  Big mistake.

Dear Margo responds:
These sleeping arrangements are for the birds, but they are merely indicative of a larger problem.
Yes – that the fellow, a parent already, decided to marry a new honey who has kids - kids sleeping with her in her bed.
You might ask your wife how many men she thinks would marry a woman so that four people could sleep in the bed.
Apparently, at least one.

And here is one from UNCERTAIN STEPMOM IN NEW ENGLAND, writing in to Dear Abby:
Help! I am engaged to a man with three kids -- a 7-year-old girl and 9-year-old twin boys -- and soon to become a stepmom. He has them about half the time.
Like I said above… well, see above.
I like his children, but I have three of my own. One is grown; two are teenagers. I see the light at the end of the tunnel and do not want to start over again raising someone else's kids.
Then don’t marry him.  See how simple that is?
Can I marry this man and not have to raise his kids? Or is that what a stepmother does? I would be happy just being their friend.
The kids are part of the package.  You are not their friend.  You are their father’s honey.  Are there really no suitable men out there for you without minor children?

Dear Abby responds:
Of course you will have a hand in raising those children -- it goes with the territory. If that's not what you are willing to sign on for, you should not marry him.
Right.  Not just a hand, but one that is tied.  Sounds like fun, doesn’t it?

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The Senate is Ready to Punish Me

I don't matter as much as people who outspend their earnings, apparently.  Richard Simon of the Los Angeles Times reports on what the Senate is doing.
A controversial proposal to allow bankruptcy judges to modify mortgages for struggling homeowners is not expected to be included in the compromise measure.
I would hope not.  Why should a judge be allowed to change a contract both parties willingly entered?
The compromise bill is likely to include a provision that will allow state and local government housing agencies to issue up to $10 billion in tax-exempt bonds to refinance sub-prime loans.
This is disgusting.  A bond means higher taxes down the road.  Why should I pay more in taxes so that someone else can hold on to property they can’t afford?
It is also expected to provide more money to counsel homeowners threatened with foreclosure, and a requirement that lenders disclose more information to consumers taking out loans.
Here’s some counseling for you: DON’T BUY THINGS, INCLUDING HOMES, YOU CAN’T AFFORD!
"The Senate needs to take steps to help families with distressed mortgages, but without providing taxpayer-funded bailouts to real-estate speculators who took irresponsible risks," Sen. John Cornyn (R-Texas) said.
Why do we need to “help families” who are living in homes they can’t afford?  Let them move to housing they can afford and make room for people like me, who have lived within their means.
Tuesday's bipartisan agreement was a dramatic turnaround from just a few weeks ago, when Senate Republicans blocked consideration of a similar proposal that included the provision to allow bankruptcy judges to change mortgage terms.

Sen. Johnny Isakson (R-Ga.) said he told Senate Republican leaders that, based on what he heard from constituents, "I did not think that doing nothing was an option."
Sorry, you can’t buy more votes than Democrats.  It isn’t going to happen, unless you want to be more socialist than them.  Why not side with liberty and personal responsibility, so you can offer a real alternative?
Democrats also want the bill to include $4 billion for local governments to buy and renovate abandoned properties, a provision that could benefit California, which has been hard hit by foreclosures.
No!  Let me keep more of my money, so that I can buy and renovate those poperties!
Explaining the sudden stampede to take up the bill, Sen. Mel Martinez (R-Fla.) said, "Everyone was home for a couple of weeks, and if they heard what I heard in Florida, I think that they realize this is a serious, serious problem."
Well, yeah, people like me are too busy working and paying our bills and figuring out how to live within our means while saving for the future, so we don’t have the time for hound you like these people.  Of course you’re going to hear from the people with problems.  But how did they get those problems?
Democrats sought to ratchet up pressure on Republicans to act by pointing to the Fed's rescue of Bear Stearns.
Which is another reason why “we” should never bail out businesses, either.
Congressional action comes as foreclosures skyrocket across the country. In California, 31,676 homes were seized in foreclosure in the fourth quarter of 2007, a 421% increase over the same period a year earlier.
Great!  Unless the government interferes, housing prices will drop until they are low enough that my family can afford to upgrade without destroying our finances.  What happens to people like me, who have waited and saved, when the government gets involved?  I get taxed more and will have less chance of upgrading to a better home.

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It’s the Business Owner, Not the Politician, Who Creates Jobs

H. Rodham Clinton and B. Hussein Obama, according to this report by Steven R. Hurst of the Associated Press, are promising to be Santa Claus again, this time with jobs.
Democratic presidential candidate Hillary Rodham Clinton is proposing billions of dollars a year Wednesday to keep jobs from being shipped abroad as she appealed to blue collar workers in Pennsylvania, the next big primary contest where she hopes to trim rival Barack Obama's lead.
That is not the President’s job – to spend money “to keep jobs from being shipped abroad”.  You know what sends jobs abroad?  Companies find they can get more done for less trouble and expense elsewhere.  Why?  Federal interference is one reason.
But the former first lady showed no signs of quitting as she focused on job creation and challenges to the U.S. economy at campaign appearances across Pennsylvania, which holds the next primary contest on April 22 with 158 delegates at stake.
The only jobs a President creates are government jobs.
At an economic summit in Pittsburgh on Wednesday organized by her presidential campaign, Clinton was expected to propose the elimination of tax breaks for companies that move jobs to other countries and use the savings to provide $7 billion a year in tax incentives to persuade companies to "insource" jobs in the United States
Bait and rebates… enough already.  If you’re going to have business taxes, make them even.  Do not give companies “welfare”.  But do not punish them, either, unless they commit personal or property crimes.  That’s what our government is supposed to be about – protecting us from threats to our property or our selves.  It isn’t there to redistribute wealth, or run our lives for us, or make us feel good.
Pennsylvania and other states holding upcoming primaries, including Indiana and Kentucky, have suffered the loss of manufacturing jobs in recent years and have yet to transition to new industries and other ways of expanding their economies.
And the best thing the President can do it to get out of the way and tell people to take care of themselves and not rely on “someone else” to make sure they have a job.
Clinton's plan would offer new tax benefits for research and job development. It would also create "innovation and research clusters" and provide $500 million annually in investments to encourage the creation of high-wage jobs in clean energy.
More bait and rebates.  STOP!  If a President really had the ability to create high-wage jobs, why not create 100 million high wage jobs, and make is so everyone in the U.S. has a high wage job?  Does HRC think only so many people are worthy of high wage jobs, but don't currently have one?
"Senator McCain has been saying I don't understand national security, but he's the one who wants to keep tens of thousands of United States troops in Iraq for as long as 100 years," Obama said.
Another non-sequitur from B. Hussein Obama.  That’s okay – the MySpace generation won’t pick up on that.  They can barely remember what was said two seconds ago.
"One hundred years in a country that had nothing to do with 9/11 may make sense to George Bush and John McCain but it is the wrong thing to do," Obama said, drawing applause at the town-hall session.
And Germany had nothing to do with Pearl Harbor, and yet we’re still there.
McCain spokesman Tucker Bounds said Obama's remarks showed his "complete lack of preparedness to be commander in chief."
"His attempt to paint McCain's position as something else is nothing but the disingenuous, old-style politics that he claims to reject," Bounds said.
Exactly.
Clinton assaulted McCain as a candidate who would stand back and watch as the U.S. economy spiraled downward and blamed Bush for the nation's deepening financial difficulties.
Better a President stand back and do nothing than make things worse and punish people who have been  responsible with their finances.  The problem is, the federal government already does too much.  If it did nothing, we’d be better off.
She announced support for a plan to create 3 million new jobs to rebuild the U.S. infrastructure.

Obama latched onto the same theme, promising to create jobs by using $60 billion he said would be saved by ending the Iraq war.

These people either have a complete lack of economic understanding, or they think YOU have.  I suspect the latter.

Jobs are created by businesses.  People get jobs by offering something for which other people are willing to pay – labor, time, expertise, skill, creativity, whatever.  The more a business can produce goods and services for which other people will pay, the more jobs it will create.
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Are California Businesses Gambling On Nevada?

California creates an environment hostile to business.  Nevada markets itself as more friendly to business.  California’s tax-and-interfere politicians get angry that businesses actually want to go where they can operate more easily or efficiently.

Evan Halper, Los Angeles Times Staff Writer, reports.
In a series of advertisements in newspapers and business journals that portray California in cartoons, the Nevada Development Authority is trying to lure California enterprises across the state line.
That’s called freedom and competition, folks.
The ads crow that Nevada, long a haven for businesses seeking refuge from taxes, has no corporate income tax, no personal income tax and no inventory tax -- plus, it has lower workers' compensation rates and a pro-business attitude.
Good for Nevada.  California has corporate income taxes, personal income taxes, sales taxes, gas taxes, and all kinds of taxes.
The move by Nevada officials, who say they will spend about $1.5 million placing the ads in publications and on billboards, has been met with some annoyance among California lawmakers.
Yes, you see, California tax-raisers want you to be ignorant of your choices.
"Businesses are here because they appreciate the powers of this economy," said state Sen. Mark Ridley-Thomas (D-Los Angeles), who is among the Democrats arguing for a tax hike. "I suspect Nevada wishes it could be ranked as among one of the top economies in the world."
And you are helping its economy grow.  Guess what?  Most businesses that move to Nevada can still participate in the California economy.  That’s how trade works.
The campaign includes at least seven ads, most labeled "More Tales of the California Tax Bear…" In one, the bear has a leash around a businessman's neck and orders him to "keep dancing." In another, the animal is greedily devouring a pot of honey labeled "profits."
One of the ads doesn't include the bear at all, but instead takes direct aim at the state's movie-star governor. A giant hand snatches the wallet out of a businessman's pocket; under the quote: "I'll be back!"
Sound good to me.
The Public Policy Institute of California last year released a report that said California's relatively high tax burden and intense regulatory environment had not sparked an exodus of businesses from the state. It found that 11,000 jobs per year were relocating outside of California, fewer than the number of jobs being created in a state with more than 18 million jobs.
Then why do the California tax-raisers care about the campaign?
Schwarzenegger administration officials say other states can't compete with California, which has an economy roughly the size of Italy's. They say policies championed by Schwarzenegger, including state support for [embryonic only] stem-cell and alternative-fuel research, have made California increasingly attractive to corporations.
Great.  Corporate welfare to kill babies and encourage inefficient energy policies.
To view the Nevada advertisements, go to www.latimes.com/nevadaads
We need more liberty in California.  That includes freedom for businesses, otherwise known as taxpayers and employers.  Business will go where various factors combine to produce favorable conditions: access to customers, access to labor, access to infrastructure and other resources, lower crime rates, lower taxes, and less government interference.  People (labor) tend to prefer living, working, and shopping in a place where they’re less likely to get vandalized, burglarized, robbed, assaulted, or murdered, and where they can afford a home.

We don’t need higher taxes. 
We need to prioritize spending.  Focus on security, law enforcement, and public safety.  Privatize as much as possible – infrastructure, education, etc.  If people can’t live off of the public dole here, they’re likely to move where they can, and then they’ll be another state’s problem.

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