Posted by
Playful Walrus on Tuesday, March 20, 2007 7:46:00 PM
Larry Kramer, founder of the circus sideshow – I mean “protest group” - ACT UP,
offers an excessive lament in the
Los Angeles Times, accusing the vast majority of society as being hateful.
DEAR STRAIGHT PEOPLE,
That would include me.
Why do you hate gay people so much?
I don’t hate homosexual people. At least I don’t hate anyone
because they are homosexual. I’m fine with homosexual people in general, and comfortable being one of the few straight people in a crowd of homosexual people. I even find it flattering when another guy makes a pass at me.
Gays are hated. Prove me wrong.
Everyone is hated. Ever see how devout Christians are portrayed on TV?
Your top general just called us immoral.
That doesn’t equal hate. I think my brother, who is straight, does some immoral things. I do some immoral things. I don’t hate my brother. I don’t hate myself.
Marine Gen. Peter Pace, chairman of the Joint Chiefs, is in charge of an estimated 65,000 gay and lesbian troops, some fighting for our country in Iraq.
I’ll bet there are plenty of fornicators in the military, too, but that doesn’t mean I have to like that people fornicate.
A right-wing political commentator, Ann Coulter, gets away with calling a straight presidential candidate a f----t.
A married man with children. Clearly not homosexual. This was not hatred directed at homosexuals. Have you ever heard her on Al Rantel’s show? You know about Mr. Rantel, don’t you?
Even Garrison Keillor, of all people, is making really tacky jokes about gay parents in his column.
Well, if you insist on becoming parent using third parties knowing that you will deny that child either a mother or father, you should expect some jokes. Jokes are harmless compared to what you’re doing to that child.
Sens. Hillary Rodham Clinton and Barack Obama tried to duck the questions that Pace's bigotry raised, confirming what gay people know: that there is not one candidate running for public office anywhere who dares to come right out, unequivocally, and say decent, supportive things about us.
People choose not to support certain behaviors. Get over it. Your self-esteem should not rest on what HRC says about you.
Gays should not vote for any of them.
Yes, please stay home if you are so indignant of how representative republics function.
Don't any of you wonder why heterosexuals treat gays so brutally year after year after year, as your people take away our manhood, our womanhood, our personhood?
Some homosexuals often to that to themselves. Surgically.
What we can leave our surviving lovers is taxed far more punitively than what you leave your (legal) surviving spouses. Why do you do this?
Marriage laws are meant to promote the kinds of relationships that are best for raising families.
My lover will be unable to afford to live in the house we have made for each other over our lifetime together.
Sounds like a tax problem to me. Support tax reform.
But you have equality, and we don't.
Wrong. You have the same rights I do. You can choose not to exercise them, and so far, you have chosen not to.
President Bush will leave a legacy of hate for us that will take many decades to cleanse. He has packed virtually every court and every civil service position in the land with people who don't like us.
First, you wrongly mistake disagreeing with your agenda as hatred for all homosexual people. Then, you write as though Bush’s appointments are any more resolute against your assault on traditional society than the appointments made through all of history.
So, even with the most tolerant of new presidents, gays will be unable to break free from this yoke of hate.
Tolerance? You sound intolerant of anyone who doesn’t support your behaviors or who recognizes that marriage is something that brings both sexes together as an intrinsic element of its nature.
If all of this is not hate, I do not know what hate is.
Perhaps the homosexual-on-homosexual violence that plagues “the community?”
Our feeble gay movement confines most of its demands to marriage.
That’s because it
isn’t feeble and has gotten everything else for which it has campaigned. I suspect, though, that after “marriage” would be tax-funding to give you children, since a single-sex couple can’t make children themselves. After all, we must have “equality.”
You must know that gays get beaten up all the time, all over the world.
Often by other homosexual people. Straight people get beaten up too. True, there are fascist countries that harm homosexual people for being homosexual – which is another reason to support the American system, which
protects people.
If someone beats you up because of who you are - your race or ethnic origin - that is considered a hate crime. But in most states, gays are not included in hate crime measures, and Congress has refused to include us in a federal act.
”Hate crime” legislation should be scrapped entirely. People should be prosecuted for beating others up for any reason other than defense.
Homosexuality is a punishable crime in a zillion countries, as is any activism on behalf of it.
Oh, you mean like those countries in Europe? Canada? But as for the others, we’re not supposed to impose our values on other countries, remember?
Do you consider it acceptable that 20,000 Christian youths make an annual pilgrimage to San Francisco to pray for gay souls?
Sure I do, because
I believe in freedom of religion and freedom of speech. Christian prayer is a peaceful, loving thing.
Gays do not realize that the more we become visible, the more we come out of the closet, the more we are hated.
There
are people who hate you for being homosexual, but not as many as you think. There are people who dislike very much inappropriate actions and dress in public, disruptive demonstrations in inappropriate places (like say, in a church). People also dislike when you try to force them to approve and support counterfeit marriage as marriage, especially when they hold marriage to be sacred.
Why is it socially acceptable to joke about "girlie men" or to discriminate against us legally with "constitutional" amendments banning gay marriage?
You can’t ban something that doesn’t exist, like a squared circle. You
can keep activist judges from trying to force a new construct of society on an unwilling majority, however.
Because we cannot marry, we can pass on only a fraction of our estates, we do not have equal parenting rights and we cannot live with a foreigner we love who does not have government permission to stay in this country.
I would say not interacting with someone of the opposite sex causes you not to have parenting “rights”. That bigoted Mother Nature won’t let you conceive and carry a child without both a man and a woman, after all.
How dare she! You
can marry, but let’s assume that all of the rights and privileges of married couples were extended to any two people – does that mean you’d stop clamoring for single-sex “marriage?” Somehow, I doubt it.
These are the equal protections that the Bill of Rights proclaims for all?
Yes, you have the same access to marriage I do. That you do not want to marry (someone of the opposite sex) does not negate the fact that you do have the same access. I don’t have access to military veteran programs unless I go into the military. But I chose not to go into the military. Should those programs be extended to me anyway? If you say no, you are a hateful bigot, by your logic.
Why do you hate us so much that you will not permit us to legally love?
Plenty of people love without getting married.
I think your hate is evil.
I think fornication, mocking holy matrimony, and unnecessary behaviors that easily injure and spread disease are evil. So what? I’m not clamoring for laws to impose
my thinking on
you.
What do we do to you that is so awful? Why do you feel compelled to come after us with such frightful energy?
Oh yes, homosexually-focused activist groups have just been minding their own business all these years, not trying to influence legislation, academia, media, or the larger culture, not attacking traditional values or morals or religious/speech freedoms or property rights of landlords or employer rights - and here all of these hateful people spontaneously organized to attack you because they had nothing better to do with their time and money. You’re like the arsonist who sets fire to brush and then complains that firefighting trucks are clogging the road.
What possible harm comes to you if we marry, or are taxed just like you, or are protected from assault by laws that say it is morally wrong to assault people out of hatred?
Go ahead and marry, but you want to counterfeit marriage, and counterfeiting devalues the real thing. I’m against “thought crimes” legislation. Why should you be MORE protected than anyone else? Assault should be prosecuted equally.
Wow, I hardly got through his whine. He sounds like a sad person, and he thinks his sadness is the result of what other people are doing, but maybe it is more about how he has lived his life. Again, I don't hate homosexual people - I worry that my friends are exposing themselves to behaviors that are harmful to them, result in higher instances of domestic abuse, homicide, addiction, depression, mental illness, risk-taking, and health problems.